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so i'm an fa and feeder and my boyfriend is pretty big, about 280 lbs. but recently, he's been petty intent on losing weight, and he is at lightning speed! i told him i like him big, but he says he'd rather be healthier and lose more weight. i didn't meet him on here so he doesn't know the real depth of my fetish but i really don't want him to get skinny! what should i do?!

I don't think this is necessarily the end of your relationship. But it wouldn't hurt to spell out for him the exact depth of your fat fetish.

In the course of this you'll probably need to be clear in stating that you'd never try to make him gain weight against his will or sabotage his diet. You should also explain that it's possible to keep some pudge and still be healthy. (if health is his main concern)